4th Sunday in Lent, Sermon by The Reverend Loree Reed

Luke 15: 11–32
May the words of my mouth and the meditations of our hearts be acceptable to you, O Lord our strength and our redeemer.  Amen.

For all the times I’ve preached on this parable of the Prodigal Son, I’d never noticed before Luke’s introduction to the parable – explaining that Jesus was offering it in response to all the grumbling he was hearing from the people who considered themselves righteous – and were offended that this Rabbi was also welcoming the riff–raff, the decidedly less–than–righteous ones among them.  “Look at this fellow,” they were saying.  “He not only welcomes sinners; he invites them to his table.  He eats with them.”  And in those days, of course, in that culture, to eat with someone was an intimate gesture of acceptance.  It was a strong signal that the host accepted his guests as equals.  And these scribes and Pharisees, who followed the Law of Moses scrupulously, were offended to be placed in the same company as the ones who couldn’t care less whether someone had washed his hands before he sat down to eat or not.
So Jesus tells the crowd a story of a man who had two sons.  The elder was a typical eldest child – a rule follower . . . a straight–A student . . . an Eagle Scout . . . the star quarterback on the football team.  But for all his stellar qualities, this young man was still anxious.  He was afraid he would fall short of full acceptance in his father’s eyes.  So he jealously hoards every accolade that comes his way – and fiercely resents any competition – as if love were a zero-sum game . . . as if there was only enough love to go around – and he’s going to get his share before anyone else steals it away.  What he hasn’t realized is that his father’s love is freely given.  It has been from the moment this father first laid eyes on his child.  It wasn’t earned.  It was simply given.  But this eldest child hasn’t figured that out yet.  And in his anxiety to get everything right, to be perfect, his eyes are on himself.  And he’s full of resentment for his brother
The younger son too has resentment and fear.  He is afraid of being left out.  And his concern had some validity to it, for in those days it was the eldest son who received the lion’s share of any inheritance.  So the younger son is afraid there won’t be anything left over for him.  It’s in an effort to quell that fear that he’s grabbing as much as his hands can possibly hold.  Never mind that loving relationship with his father.  It’s that inheritance he wants . . . and receives.  And as soon as he gets it, he goes off to fill the void, that angry sense of inadequacy, with everything money can buy.
I think it was Saint Augustine who said we need empty hands to receive the gift of grace.  As long as this boy’s hands were full, he couldn’t see the loving grace his father had extended to him.  But soon enough, when the money gives out, his hands are empty — and not just his hands.  His stomach is empty too.  And, finally he admits to himself that he’s dying of hunger – not just hunger for food, but for a father’s love as well.  It’s in that moment that he turns around.  The word is Repentance.  Metanoia.  Repentance is not just about giving up some bad habit or a series of bad habits.  Repentance is about getting a new mind, a whole new perspective.  To repent is to adopt God’s point of view in place of your own.¹
And that’s what this younger son does.  In the parable Jesus says that the younger son “comes to himself.”  Finally seeing things from the Father’s point of view, he finds a place within himself that is deeper than his fears.  A 17th century Jewish rabbi put it this way:
No matter how low you may have fallen in your own esteem, bear in mind that if you delve deeply into yourself, you will discover holiness there.  A holy spark resides within you.  And through repentance you may fan it into a consuming flame that will burn away the dross of unholiness and unworthiness. 
When the younger son finally quits feeding his fear, when he grows still enough to sense the love that’s been with him all along, he turns around and heads for home.  It’s not that fear has left him entirely, but the light is always stronger than the dark . . . and God’s love is stronger than our fear.  When he thought of himself . . . he was still afraid.  But when he thought of his father, he turned his feet towards home.  Our faith is not in ourselves.  Our faith is in God, who is gracious.
And when the boy finally approached his home something happened that exceeded his wildest dreams.  Grace ran out to meet him – as his father left caution and propriety to the winds and ran down that road to welcome him back –  Not with the words, “I told you so,” but with, “Get a fine robe for my son, a ring for his hand.  Put shoes on his feet.  And slaughter that calf we’ve been saving for a special occasion.  My son was dead.  Now he’s alive again.  Come on!  We’re having a party!”
That’s what it’s like for every one of us when we turn our feet towards home.  We’re expecting a rebuke, but God fills the hall with festivity.  We’re rehearsing a scripted confession and reviewing our failures and sin.  But God goes in for robes and rings and a fatted calf — because we have returned home from a distant country.  That’s how divine love is given to every one of us – with a full embrace and a heartfelt kiss.²
And that’s why every one of us here this morning has come – to receive that full welcome home.  For no matter how straight a face we are keeping, we’ve all made mistakes.  We’ve all come wounded.  But it’s through those mistakes, through those wounds that God now grants us grace . . . and a bright tomorrow.
So to all of us here this morning, myself included, I can say, “Welcome home.”
Amen.
¹  William Temple
²  Unsigned article on “Newness”, dated March 10, 2013 from The Living Word
 
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